Help us welcome one of our writer friends (see what I did there?) …. Mariah Fredericks! She’s traveling today, so her comments depend on the kindness of the wifi on the train. But be patient … she’ll be here.
Writer Friends
Writer friends—they’re the best. That person you can send the roughest draft of a chapter and they will tell you it’s awesome, amazing, so great—and yeah, it needs work. The one who cheerfully offers to kill that reviewer who called your book “meandering.” Who listens to your complaints about your publisher—because she knows, without question, you will do it for her. Because you have. Many times. And will again, gladly.

One of the most famous pair of writer friends is Edith Wharton and Henry James. Before writing The Wharton Plot, in which they both appear, I knew they were friends. But I didn’t know how wonderfully deep, complex and, at times, hilariously catty their friendship was. James was already “the master” of American literature when Wharton embarked on her literary career. At their first meeting, she wore a pink Doucet dress to impress him. “Do New York,” he commanded her; the city should be her subject because she knew it as few writers could.
They wrote to each other constantly, traveled together, and satirized each other in print. Like many good friends, they had their issues. She was constantly compared to him, which she found irritating. “The continued cry that I am an echo of Mr. James (whose books of the last ten years I can’t read much as I delight in the man)” left her “rather hopeless.” In turn, he resented her commercial success, her wealth, and her boundless, at times bullying, energy. “She uses up everything and everyone.”
In times of crisis, she did rely on him heavily. When she was in the grip of toxic love affair, she used him as cover, having him travel with her and her lover to create the semblance of propriety. She confided in James, trusting him with details of her life that could have ruined her if they became public. “Live in the day,” he advised. “Don’t borrow trouble and remember that nothing happens as we forecast it.” When she was finally coming to terms with the fact that she should leave her husband, she consulted James. He noted that she was “in…rags, but as sublime and insurpassable as ever.”
In turn, she worked tirelessly to secure him a measure of financial security, campaigning unsuccessfully for him to win the Nobel Prize. In 1911, when James was despondent over the loss of his brother and the poor reception of a collection of his life’s work, she solicited funds for a “tribute” to him. James was embarrassed and outraged—and told her so in no uncertain terms. “My trip has been completely poisoned by Henry’s letter,” she wrote a friend. “There is nothing on earth I valued so much as his affection. I can never get over this.”
But she did and he did. In 1913, she arranged for Scribner’s to pay James a handsome advance, which she herself paid for. James never found out, but he never finished the book. He died on February 28, 1916. Edith wrote historian Gaillard Lapsley, “Let us keep together all the closer now, we few who had him at his best.”
Writer friends—let us keep together always.
What makes someone a good writer friend? If you have a good story to share about your book writing bestie, share in the comments.

Mariah Fredericks was born, raised, and still lives in New York City. She graduated from Vassar College with a degree in history. She is the author of the Jane Prescott mystery series, which has twice been nominated for the Mary Higgins Clark Award. Her historical standalone, The Lindbergh Nanny, was nominated for the 2023 Anthony and Agatha, as well as the Macavity Sue Feder Memorial Award. Her latest novel, The Wharton Plot, released on January 23, 2024.
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What an amazing story. And so true for all of us. Our dearest friends lift us up.
Can’t wait to read the book.
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And it’s Ellen, not Anonymous.
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Thank you! Their friendship is fascinating. You could do endless books on it. Happy Edith Wharton’s birthday!
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A good writer friend is the person you can tell anything to, including the not-so-attractive things (like how you are simultaneoulsy thrilled and jealous of someone). This friend will give you a shoulder to cry on, celebrate with you, or provide encouragement (and chocolate) when necessary. And yes, the one who can say, “This is great! And it needs work.” LOL
I have a couple of people who fit this category. But first and foremost is Annette Dashofy, my “running buddy” at conferences. We travel together. We room together. When we’re together and something goes wrong, it’s funny not tragic.
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Writer friends are ESSENTIAL at conferences. Mine is Karen Odden. She’s very firm about getting out of the hotel when necessary. I call her my conference wife. Thanks for writing!
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Humor is key between friends, Liz!
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Totally. It’s such a crazy business, you have to laugh.
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My writing bestie is Sarah Burr. We commiserate, trade early copies of manuscripts, and have a ball hosting our Bookish Time webcasts. Sarah’s the best!
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Love that!
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Mariah, thanks for being our guest on Chicks today–and congrats on The Wharton Plot. I enjoyed the Lindbergh Nanny, and this book sounds amazing as well. I could jump right into that cover, too. And writer besties are…the best.
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Thanks for the interesting post. And this blog could be entitled My Writer Friends.
Tom Burns
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Absolutely, Tom! So glad you’re here.
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I didn’t know how “complicated” their friendship was. So interesting! This book is next up on my list. And yes, I always say the friends we meet are the best thing about this industry!
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I didn’t know anything about their friendship! Fascinating story. Thanks for sharing it, Mariah!
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What an amazing friendship. Thanks for sharing, Mariah! Writing friends are wonderful, and I’m happy to be part of the Chicks community.
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This post brought a little tear to my eye, Mariah. Writer friendships are so very important, because other writers are the only ones who truly understand us. Thanks so much for visiting the Chicks today, and congrats on “The Wharton Plot”–it sounds terrific!
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So happy to have you here, Mariah, and to read this wonderful post. I cherish my writer friends. ❤ Their support, insight, and wisdom are essential not just for bookish pursuits, but day-to-day joys and struggles. I'm lucky to have them in my life.
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Hi Mariah: I’m sorry I’m so late to your post (the semester has been a tornado so far!) but I cannot WAIT to read your bool–I teach both Wharton and James. Congratulations! Also: adore and am so so so grateful for writer friends.
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