The Chicks are happy to have Heather Weidner on the blog sharing about her early influences. Take it away, Heather!
Early Influences That Led to My Addiction to the Mystery Life
Many thanks to Ellen and the Chicks for letting me visit and talk about the early influences that led to my life-long addiction to mysteries and true-crime and provided lots of background material for my stories.
When I was little, I wanted to be a teacher, Bat Girl, Nancy Drew, and an astronaut. I get dizzy on spinny rides and suffer horribly from motion sickness, so the last career choice was a no-go. The Bat Girl thing is still on my bucket list, but looking back, I realized I had some real-life Nancy Drew experiences. Being a C. K. (cop’s kid) fueled my life-long attraction to mysteries that started with Saturday morning cartoons and who-done-it novels. Scooby-Doo, Josie and the Pussycats, Nancy Drew, and the Hardy Boys became gateways to Agatha Christie, Alfred Hitchcock, Sherlock Holmes, and so many wonderful stories.

Growing up, I assumed everyone talked about murder and mayhem around the dinner table. We did at our house, and that was before true crime was such a hot topic. It wasn’t until I was older, that I learned this wasn’t always the best dinner conversation. People give you the side-eye in restaurants when you talk about crime scenes, cool poisons, and weird ways to dispose of bodies.
But the stories, investigative techniques, and tools of the trade were part of our everyday life. I knew most of the radio ten-codes before I was in the third grade. Before cell phones, that radio squawked constantly, and I wanted to know what they were talking about.
My sister and I used to play with his night-vision goggles and scope in the backyard. The greenish glow gave everything an other-worldly appearance. We were determined to use them to spot something nefarious in suburbia. Unfortunately, the only thing we found creeping around was the neighbor’s poodle.
The Mustard (Muster) room at his police station, was one cool hang-out for kids who were supposed to be quiet while their dad was working on the weekend. It looked like a classroom and had three walls with sliding chalkboards. My sister and I had a field day in there, and I’m sure the next shift of officers got a chuckle out of our mural-sized, chalk drawings.
One of my first jobs was to pick up the shell casings at the range after my dad practiced. Those suckers were hot, and you had to let them cool before you touched them. I used a metal Planter’s Peanuts can to hold my spent treasures. Years before paintball was popular, he and I melted down my old crayons to make dummy bullets for the SWAT team to practice with. My sister and I also loved the obstacle course next to the range. We played on the balance beams and climbing walls. I always loved that the balance beam there was low to the ground and just my size. It wasn’t until much later that I learned it was the K9 obstacle course and not a kids’ jungle gym.
I can’t count the number of times we went out that he got paged to report to work. We never evacuated during hurricanes because he was on duty. He worked a lot of crazy hours, but he always tried to make school plays and recitals, even if he showed up at school in his uniform.
One time, we were returning a rented video (when they actually had stores and not just vending machines), and a guy ran out of the A&P grocery with the manager and staff chasing him across the parking lot. My sister and I spent the afternoon waiting for my dad to do the booking paperwork for the shoplifter. On another summer evening, we were leaving a fireworks show at the beach, and a fight broke out among some sailors and tourists. My dad and a shore patrol agent were the only ones around, so my friends and I watched them bust up the fight, and we spent the evening in the police station’s breakroom while he booked them.
Self-defense maneuvers and gun-cleaning were routine tasks. Safety tips about never getting into a car with a stranger and situational awareness were harped on ad nauseum. Many times, especially in high school and college, I thought he was overly overprotective, but I now know the tragedies and sadness that he saw every day (and shielded us from). And I can’t tell you how many times I scraped egg off a police cruiser over the years.

My dad was always my superhero. He was the coolest dad according to my first grade class. On career day, he blasted the siren in his police cruiser, showed us how to arrest someone (the perp was our teacher), and let us talk on the police cruiser’s microphone. Then the police helicopter landed in the field next door to the school. It was way cooler than the insurance agent’s presentation.
Never watch a police procedural with law enforcement. He ruined “CHiPs” for me. He always critiqued their investigative techniques, the amount of time the investigation took, and the ways the detectives acted. (The only cop shows he liked were Hill Street Blues, Barney Miller, and NYPD Blue.)
When my sister and I were small, he took us to the empty lockup to see what “jail” looked like. I will never forget the sound of that iron door slamming with me behind it. Let’s just say I’m too high maintenance for those accommodations (a metal toilet and no TP). A life of crime was not for me.
And then there were the interesting gifts. Most girls get flowers. Not at my house. Through the years, I’ve received a DNA kit in case I ever disappeared and needed to be identified. One year, he gave us a folding ladder in case of a fire. I have lots of containers of heavy duty pepper spray and those little gadgets that will break your car window and cut your seatbelt if you drive off a bridge. And to this day, he still gives me bags of bullets that I can use on the range for practice.

I was so fortunate to have such a great childhood. My dad, the police officer, put in long hours over his forty-six year career, and it was scary when he was called out in the middle of the night for emergencies. There were many mornings that I went to school, and he hadn’t come home from the callout that was a hostage situation, a shooting, or a missing child. Many of our hand-me-downs went to kids who were in trouble, and stuffed animals always ended up in the trunk of his cruiser for a child who needed some comfort.
I wouldn’t trade the experience for anything. I learned some amazing life skills. How many kids do you know who can make dummy bullets, recite police radio 10-codes, or get out of Zip-ties?
What early influences did you have?
Bio:

Through the years, Heather Weidner has been a cop’s kid, technical writer, editor, college professor, software tester, and IT manager. She writes the Delanie Fitzgerald mystery series, the Jules Keene Glamping Mysteries, and the Mermaid Bay Christmas Shoppe Mysteries (2023).
Her short stories appear in the Virginia is for Mysteries series, 50 Shades of Cabernet, Deadly Southern Charm, and Murder by the Glass, and her novellas appear in The Mutt Mysteries series.
Originally from Virginia Beach, Heather now lives in Central Virginia with her husband and a pair of Jack Russell terriers.
Social media links:
Website and Blog: http://www.heatherweidner.com
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Book summary:

There is nothing like finding a dead body, clad only in a red satin thong, on your property to jolt you from a quiet routine. Jules Keene, owner of the posh Fern Valley Camping Resort in the Blue Ridge Mountains, is thrust into the world of the Dark Web when one of her guests, Ira Perkins, is found murdered in the woods near her vintage trailers. Jules quickly discovers that the man who claimed to be on a writing retreat was not what he seemed, and someone will go to any length to find what he left at her resort. Jules, along with her Jack Russell Terrier sidekick Bijou, has to put the rest of the missing pieces of a blackmailing scheme together before her glamping business is ruined.
Jules’s resort, set in the heart of Virginia’s Blue Ridge Mountains near Charlottesville in the quaint town of Fern Valley, offers guests a unique vacation in refurbished and upcycled vintage trailers. Hoping to expand her offerings, she partners with her maintenance/security guy to create a village of tiny houses, the latest home DIY craze, but a second murder of a reporter interrupts Jules’s expansion plans. Curiosity gets the best of her, and she steps up her sleuthing to find out what Ira Perkins was really up to and what he was really hiding at her resort.
Buy link: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09GGBFWT5
Heather,
This is fascinating stuff here! Thank you for sharing what is is like to be a CK. It sounds like there was real love despite the unorthodox growing up. So much fun!
I have no clue what my mystery influence was. As a Brat (marine’s kid) we didn’t deal with the world too much. I was reading from the time I could open a book. Ask me this weekend about my encyclopedia drama.
I wasn’t allowed to watch any tv except for Little House on the Prairie. I had no clue what my dad’s job entailed. So I just read whatever I could get my hands on.
I found out what a cozy was by accident. Went to the Tattered Cover in Denver one night after seeing this author named Diane Mott Davidson was going to be there reading from one of her earlier stories books.
End of story. I was hooked!
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Encyclopedia drama sounds fascinating, Hestia!
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Thanks so much! So glad you found cozies! I love Diane Mott Davidson’s books too!
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My dad was a law professor and my mom was a potter, so I had influences on both sides of my brain–but great for a future mystery writer!
Thanks so much for visiting the Chicks today, Heather, and congrats on the new book! (I hope it has Jack Russells in it–they’re the best!)
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Yes. This one has Bijou, a JRT. Thanks so much!
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I had to laugh at melting your crayons – priceless. And I’ve always heard that Barney Miller was one of the best cop shows.
My dad was in the Army. Never watch a military movie with a man who actually has military experience. To this day, “Early is on time and on time is late!”
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How wonderful, Heather. Thanks for sharing! Like you, Scooby-Doo was an early influence on me. After that came the detective shows my parents watched, especially The Rockford Files. And then my Agatha Christie fan devotee mom’s fave, Murder, She Wrote. It’s a wonder it took me until my 50s to start writing mystery fiction!
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I love “Barney Miller” and “Murder She Wrote”!
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Liz, your dad sounds like a man after my own heart!
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Thanks so much! He’s a treasure!
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I love the military anecdote!
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Thanks for sharing your fond memories, Heather! Mine include my father teaching me how to work with my hands and making do with whatever we had to repair and fix up the house and toys. Later, I realized those early years gave me the chops to tackle complex projects, including mergers of mega-sized corporations.
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Awww! Awesome early skills! I cherish all the memories. I learned a lot.
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Heather, this is fabulous! I think you could write a memoir! I wasn’t just entertained, I learned from it.
I’d have to say my dad was my early influencer. He was a literal Mad Man, a creative director at NY’s Madison Avenue ad agencies. He was a workaholic, which I inherited. And always, always writing and brainstorming.
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Awwww! Thanks so much! I love all the things that influence writers’ lives!
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Hi Heather,
My dad was a pharmacist, and I wrote a ‘book’ in first grade about wanting to grow up to be a pharmacist. These days I’m both an author and pharmacist. Isn’t it interesting what a big influence our dads had on our lives?
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I love all the influences from our parents. Isn’t it amazing what we take with us!
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Thanks for sharing your experiences about being a CK on the Chicks today, Heather! So fascinating! I was influenced early on by my mom in the mystery arena. We loved reading Agatha Christie together!
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I love all the comments about how parents influenced us. Awwww! Special memories with Agatha Christie!
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What a great tribute to your dad. He sounds like a great father and officer.
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Awww! He is a treasure. And he’s still my best resource!
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I guess my greatest influences were books-I’ve been reading ever since I can remember. Started with the Hardy Boys, Tarzan, The Shadow and Doc Savage. Later I graduated to Rick Brant and Ken Holt, Sherlock Holmes, Nero Wolfe and Philo Vance. I wrote a paper and gave a presentation on the evolution of the American mystery novel as a senior in high school.
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Loved this post, Heather! Thanks so much for sharing it with us— and what an amazing role-model dad. He must be very proud of you. My dad spent his 50-year career with IBM, but initially he wanted to go into the CIA (my mom put the kibosh on that). But from age 7 or so I got my hands on each new spy thriller the minute he finished reading. I trust no one, lol.
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Heather, the pic of you on the motorcycle with your dad is adorable! Thanks for hanging out today with the Chicks!
Would’ve loved to hang out with my sister in the Muster room. Many Saturdays growing up I spent in the beauty shop while my mom got her hair done — not nearly as exciting. I did overhear some educational gossip. Although I always suspected the bits they whispered so little ears couldn’t hear were the best bits!
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Oh wow, that is such rich background for your mystery work, every one of those experiences! You are really ahead of the rest of us in terms of research and procedures. Your dad sounds amazing.
(And this is SO true. Been there. > “People give you the side-eye in restaurants when you talk about crime scenes, cool poisons, and weird ways to dispose of bodies.”)
Thank you so much for visiting us, Heather!! Congratulations on your newest book.
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Heather, what a wonderful post. It was both fascinating and heartwarming. ❤
I was influenced by my mom, who was a lifelong avid reader. I couldn't match her for books read (she's blast through several a week), but I'm right there in terms of passion for the page.
Congrats on the book!!!
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