Many of you already know that I once had the privilege of hosting a dinner party for Supreme Court Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg. My law professor father had known the future justice since the 1960s, and when she agreed some years back to come speak at the UCLA Law School where Dad taught, I’d impetuously offered to cook dinner for her at my parents’ home.
You can imagine my surprise—and abject fear—when she accepted the invitation.

Soon after the momentous occasion, I began drafting a memoir about the months of planning, preparations, and angst leading up to the event, and culminating with the Grand Dinner itself. But then there it lay, collecting dust, so to speak (it was actually on my computer hard drive).
Until two years ago, when—at the urging of my wife, her mother, and several friends who’d read the manuscript—I pulled it out and started reworking the piece.
And it needed a lot of work. For although by this time I’d had four mystery novels published, a personal memoir required a completely different kind of narrative arc from crime fiction. (No, RBG did not end up investigating a murder at my parents’ house—though come to think of it, that would be a pretty fun book!)
I spent many months revising and editing the manuscript, and once I felt it was ready for submission, I sent it to my agent. She loved the memoir and began sending it out to editors.

But then the rejections started to roll in, all saying pretty much the same thing: “We love the book, but Leslie doesn’t have enough of a ‘platform’ for us to take on this project. So sorry.”
What this means is that I didn’t have a half a million Twitter followers and several dozen “influencers” talking up my product on Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok—which is now, alas, required of pretty much any new non-fiction or memoir author.
After a good little cry, I set out to investigate other options. And that’s when I discovered She Writes Press, a curated hybrid publisher committed to getting out the work of women writers, based solely on the merit of the book, rather than the fame or platform of the author. Excited to have found this different path to publication, I submitted my RBG manuscript to the press.
Only to be rejected.
Undaunted (okay, so maybe I was a little daunted), I worked on the book further, using the assistance of a developmental editor who helped me truly find the “story” within my story. And after several more months rewriting and revising, she told me she believed the book was ready. So I resubmitted it.
And this time they said yes.
So I am beyond thrilled to announce that Cooking for Ruth: A Tale of Scallops, Justice, and Love* is going to be published by She Writes Press, release date: spring, 2023.
Think of it as a mash-up of Julie and Julia and Notorious R.B.G.
Huzzah!
*(The subtitle is a work-in-progress; do let me know what you think of it.)
Readers: Have you ever impetuously offered to do something, only to be completely panicked when the offer was surprisingly accepted?

Congrats on your new book, and I’m glad you found a publisher that said yes! I’m excited to read it.
That is so great to hear! Can’t wait to read it. 🙂
Thanks, Marla–it’s very exciting!
I look forward to reading your new book. Very interesting!!
Thanks so much! It’s been a long time coming!
Congratulations!
Thank you, Dru!
Congratulations! What an honor to have had the opportunity to not just meet, but to break bread with RGB. I can’t wait to read the book!
Carol
You are so right–it was indeed an amazing honor–and evening!
Wonderful picture of RGB and your family! Please tell us when the book is out!
I will indeed let you all know when it’s finally out!
Congratulations, Leslie! I love the title.
Thanks, Liz!
Love, Law, and Scallops? I like the rhythm of it that way. This is going to be stupendous!
Thank you, Kaye–and thanks for the title idea. Still musing…
Looking forward to being one of the “million” who will read the book and find the naysayers (rejections) wrong !
Ha! Thanks, Debra! (And I had a dream about you last night–that I bought a copy of your first three Sarah Blair mysteries that had just been released all together as one book.)
Leslie, I cannot wait to read this book. So glad you stuck with the onerous submissions process (a challenge RGB would have appreciated, I bet) because it’s going to be AMAZING. Love the subtitle, too. Maybe you could put the “scallops” at the end, with the unexpected twist word as the clincher? (Cooking for Ruth: A Tale of Justice, Love & Scallops)
Thank you, Lisa. And yes, I’ve always said that perseverance is one of the most important traits that a writer must possess.
And keep the title ideas coming–love them!
Agree. And I’m now kind of wondering what role the scallops play…
Huzzah! So much to celebrate here. First, there’s the memoir itself–and I like the idea of a genre-bending RBG mystery. Secondly there’s praise for She Writes Press, a women-supporting-women enterprise. And finally there is the sharing of what must have been a warm and wonderful evening. I’m just now deciding what wine would pair well with the novel. A white one, surely–to compliment the scallops! And I’m chewing on the title (in a cerebral sort of way). It’s hard to make an informed decison without having read the manuscript–so I don’t know what kind of love is involved. Is it filial love, love of the law, respect for RBG? And the word “love” just sort of thuds on the page–at least to my ear. You have two two-syllable words–one concrete and one abstract (scallops, justice)–followed by a wide-open concept one-syllable word (love). MY MFA is in poetry so I’m caught up in anaylzing the metrical feet. BORING! But how about this? Perhaps substitute “admiration” for “love.” The rhythm of the title doesn’t simply end–it resonates on the tongue. Cooking for Ruth: A Tale of Scallops, Justice, and Admiration. Or maybe even “respect” for the final word. Then the “r” sound carries through. But here’s what I know. Call it what you will: I’ll read it!
Thank you, Pam–taking notes here. These are all great ideas. One of the themes of the book is family, so I guess that’s where I was going with the “love” idea.
Hooray, Leslie! So glad that you kept on going with this project–it’s going to be amazing!
Congrats on getting the book accepted! Makes all the hard work worth it, doesn’t it?
Thanks, Mark! And yes, it does indeed!
Leslie, I AM SO EXCITED FOR YOU!! This is going to be AMAZING!! No ideas on the subtitle yet. But I have to say, the sidebar notion of RBG as an amateur sleuth might be equally brilliant! Who better than to write murderous wrongs and deliver justice, lol?!
Congratulations, Leslie! I am so excited for you and can’t wait to read it!!!
Thank you, Kim!
Leslie, Well done!!! This is such a credit to your perseverance and ability to adjust/readjust/readjust in the face of adversity. I can’t wait to buy it and enjoy, vicariously, your experience. Best wishes. Ruth
In answer to your question: My husband and I just signed, last Thursday, a contract for construction of our new home in Charlottesville, Virginia. This will be our 7th move in the past 15 (by next year’s completion – 16) years. Given that we’ve not lived in Charlottesville before (except since this August when we sold our condo of 2 years in a different city), it is daunting and terrifying. This time, if we get something wrong in the design, it’s our fault!
Ruth, that’s so exciting. We visited Charlottesville once when I was kid. It was beautiful!
I seem to remember telling you about the memoir some years back as you drove me to the airport after Malice…
Good luck with the house construction, my dear–very exciting (but daunting, too)!
Dear Leslie – we were at Arlington National Cemetery this past weekend and I overheard one of the Rangers telling someone how to find RBG’s gravesite. It’s been recently completed with her information, in addition to Marty’s. I took a picture for you (and for me!). Hmmm – just realized I have no way to attach it on here so I’ll see if your old email address still works :). I thought of you!
HOORAY!! So excited for you, Leslie, and can’t wait to read this book! (And I predict it will be adapted into a film too.) So much applause for your tenacity. xoxo
Ha! I wish.
Congratulations, Leslie!! Your memoir sounds incredible! Will the recipes you prepared be included? Also, now I so want to read a cozy mystery starring RBG, lol.
Yes, the recipes will definitely be included!
Yay, Leslie, so excited about the book! There will be regrets by the publishers who passed on this!
Ha! Thanks, Vickie!
I’m constantly surprised when people say yes to me! And I couldn’t be happier that this book will soon see the light of day! So exciting!!
I know, right? Thank you, my dear!
Leslie, I am over the moon for you and for the rest of us who get to read this book! I can’t WAIT. xoxo
Congratulations Leslie! I am so happy for you and so excited to read this book!
Lucy
Merci, ma cherie!